Possessive Vs Trust

most guys tend to be possessive in terms of relationships.

why is that so?

is it because of the lack of trust?

or is it because of the lack of self confidence in them?

for me.

i feel that the real reason is because of love.

too much love.

seriously.

you may think that i'm trying to speak up for the guys but this is really how i feel.

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though i feel that being possessive is not a bad thing.

but.

neither is it something good to start with.

because restrictions will just follow up with possession.

"you cannot do this"

"you cannot do that"

human beings do not like to be restricted.

just imagine someone restricting you now, will you feel happy about it?

yes?

no?

does not matter.

all i feel is that guys should give in to girls in this aspect.

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of course.

all these are easier said than done.

i know it.

cause i am a guy myself.

but.

i am learning.

"if she is meant to be mine, she will be. eventually"

so guys who are attached out there, do not be so possessive okay?

cause.

remember.

possessive and trust.

they go in different directions.