Possessive Vs Trust

most guys tend to be possessive in terms of relationships.

why is that so?

is it because of the lack of trust?

or is it because of the lack of self confidence in them?

for me.

i feel that the real reason is because of love.

too much love.

seriously.

you may think that i'm trying to speak up for the guys but this is really how i feel.

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though i feel that being possessive is not a bad thing.

but.

neither is it something good to start with.

because restrictions will just follow up with possession.

"you cannot do this"

"you cannot do that"

human beings do not like to be restricted.

just imagine someone restricting you now, will you feel happy about it?

yes?

no?

does not matter.

all i feel is that guys should give in to girls in this aspect.

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of course.

all these are easier said than done.

i know it.

cause i am a guy myself.

but.

i am learning.

"if she is meant to be mine, she will be. eventually"

so guys who are attached out there, do not be so possessive okay?

cause.

remember.

possessive and trust.

they go in different directions.

Another Boring Day At Work

i am counting down.

my accounting career will come to an end come this coming tuesday - 17/6/2008.

i tendered my resignation letter on 11/6/2008 and with one week of notice, i will officially end work on 17/6/2008.

i am idling in the office all day long now which makes me wonder is there really a need for companies to have that one week's notice or one month's notice.

is there really a need for all these?

do they really need that time period?

i don't think so.

i just feel that we are both wasting each other's time.

do they think that they can achieved anything by asking that fellow to stay in the office for that particular period?

no.

that fellow is not going to work just because you are not letting him go.

and even if they really manage to get him to work, they will just end up with some messy stuffs which they have to clear up themselves.

is that what they really want?

ha.

i don't know.

What Is Love?

it has been a long time since i last wrote something here.

i wonder how long has it been.

years.

months.

days.

i just realised the need to write my thoughts somewhere so here i am blogging again.

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what is love?

i don't know what is love.

seriously.

all i know is that the word love is used by a lot of people nowadays.

loosely.

i love you.

you love me.

do couples out there really know what is love?

do you know what is love?